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    June 08

    侃侃北京“爷们儿”

         在北京工作生活了这么久,自然会接触到形形色色的北京人。总的来说呢,北京人的整体素质还是不错的,基本秉承了中华民族的优良传统,加之毕竟是见过大世面的,再草的民都能在外人面前亮出“爷”的范儿。我遇到的北京人,尤其是北京的男人,俗称“北京爷们儿”,是很有特点的。
         独特在哪儿呢?第一是能侃。“侃”是特点,至于究竟是优点还是缺点就要看“度”的把握了。北京爷们儿侃起大山来真是令人叹为观止,甭管侃什么,在行不在行,都能充满自信的口若悬河,仿佛对这个领域的了解已经到了炉火纯青,独孤求败的境界。别说,还真能把外行侃得顿生滔滔景仰之情。
          第二特点是省钱。北京“爷们儿”对待钱的态度可和我从前的印象大相径庭。原本以为天子脚下的臣民也会受到皇家的熏染,不说出手阔绰一掷千金吧,至少也是潇洒大方态度豁达。没想到几件事下来,发现人家算得比谁都仔细,把钱看得重着呢。比如A君,从前的同事,家里真是不缺钱的,好几套房子(可没欠银行的钱)手里攥着,十几万的年薪拿着,可是连大家出去吃饭凑份子的钱都不愿意出,能拿公家的拿公家的,能吃人家的吃人家的,公司的A4纸,签字笔,计算器,甚至面巾纸他都能往家里捣腾。还有老公的同事B君,不把精力放在开发客户上,每天算计着自己的那点儿提成会不会被别人占了。更有C君,老公公司的司机,自己违反交通规则挨了罚,却要想方设法的找些客观原因(公司规定是司机违反交规受到处罚要由自己负责,公司是不给报销的)要把损失转嫁到别人的头上。其实勤俭持家本来是很优秀的品质,之所以做的过了,是因为心中没有一杆能挑起乾坤,撑起日月的秤。对于活得不够光明磊落的人,我是有点看不大起的

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    Zhiwrote:
    哈哈^^
    好久没和人讨论这个话题了!
    北京爷们的“侃”俺还是有体会的。:)
    June 8
    Cindy Wongwrote:
    我相信例外有很多的,也许我写上去的这些才是例外呢,呵呵,写着玩,别当真
     
    June 8
    CY June Liaowrote:
    我坚决同意及支持你的观点,但是不便在此另加评论了。只是希望我遇到的会是个例外就好。。。
    June 8

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